Furrever in Our Hearts: Coping with the Loss of a Beloved Pet
As we observe All Souls’ Day, many of us remember not only family and friends who’ve passed, but also the pets who brought light, comfort, and unconditional love into our lives.
Yet, pet owners often hear hurtful words like “Aso lang naman ‘yan” or “Pusa lang naman”. These phrases may sound harmless, but they dismiss a very real kind of grief. Losing a pet means losing family; And that pain deserves to be acknowledged, not minimized.
Pets are more than companions; They are silent healers, constant friends, and witnesses to our everyday lives. When they pass, the sadness can feel overwhelming and that is okay. Grief over a pet is real because the love was real.
Ways to Heal
- Allow Yourself to Feel
Cry, reminisce, and talk about your pet freely. Mourning is part of loving. - Honor Their Memory
Light a candle, plant a flower, or keep a photo of them. These small but meaningful rituals help you say goodbye with love. - Seek Understanding Spaces
Share your story with people who get it. Supportive communities can make healing easier.
Keeping Their Love Alive
Moving forward doesn’t mean forgetting. Acts of kindness like volunteering to an animal shelter or helping strays keep your pet’s love alive in the world.
This All Souls’ Day, let’s light a candle not only for the people we’ve lost but also for the pets who made our hearts fuller.
Because it was never “aso o pusa lang naman.” It was love — loyal, unconditional, and forever.